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Kind of people you hate the most?
« on: October 13, 2010, 16:49 »
Ok...so I have a friend but she's the kind of person I hate the most (Does that even make sense? LOL).

So we have marks update at my school. She is basically those kids who always say:
"Omg I am so going to fail [insert course here]! I don't even get all that stuff." and the night before a test "OMG!!! I am soooooooo screwed I don't get it!"

When she gets her mark for the test and find out that she scored a 91% on it. Guess what she says? "Omg this is so bad... I am going to fail this course!" -_-

Seriously...SERIOUSLY!!!! DOES IT LOOK LIKE SHE'S GOING TO FAIL THAT COURSE? OH YEAH! Of course she will fail with a 91%, that's a given! Man I am currently so pissed. Not because she gets high mark but because she constantly say she is going to fail. Like think about the people who are having a waaaaay lower mark! That's not something they want to hear from a student who got 91% on a test. >.>

I swear I am not even going to help her on Chemistry. She always spam me with like billions of questions and says she doesn't get it but then get high marks... like wtf? I just hate those people who are like "Omg I just got a 84% I am doing so bad!" Ok, I can understand that everyone have different goal but a 80% and above means you are right on track and will get better. You can't possibly FAIL a course with a 80% unless you are just going to slack off and get low 65%s... -.-

Oh yeah, I also dislike people that are unsatisfied until they get like a 99% or 100%. Because God forbid, 98% is a bad mark.

Phew... I finished ranting! So who wants to go next?

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #1 on: October 13, 2010, 17:04 »
i guess you would hate me shiki for just being asian? (noooOoOoO don't hate meeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!  :touched:)

what they mean, is...their PARENTS are gonna kill them. i go through that ALL day. and my version of failing is same has hers. under 90? OUCH. parents will beat me to death.

um..... 99%? that's just a little over. but i used to do that in elementary school.... :swt:


well shiki. what kinda of kid are you? (:  we all have different standards. i bet her goal for a college is like....harvard or something. xD


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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #2 on: October 13, 2010, 17:13 »
No she wants to go to UoT aka University of Toronto. >.> She just over react to everything that has to do with marks. Sometimes I don't even know if she's trying to show off or just be extremely annoying wanting me to crush her head on the desk (No violence ^^).

I am Asian too so I know how it is like. And no she doesn't mean her parents will kill her. She yells at her mom 24h/7d so why be scared? Like I said, I know people have their own standard they want to meet but you don't have to be like "OMG I AM FAILING!!!" when you are not even close to that. People around you will find it very vexing and will dislike you without you knowing it. Asian failing doesn't necessarily mean failing the course. I would add that you are pretty far from failing it. At least if you find your mark bad, don't yell it out loud for the world to hear. -.-

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #3 on: October 13, 2010, 17:23 »
ah...OVERREACTING......i see.  O_O. no violence!

wait...SHE YELLS AT HER MOM?!?!!? WHAT!?!?! gosh...O_O
 
xD. i go to this really nerdy school so everyone's.....a nerd i guess  :=X:.  all of my friends want to go to harvard, yale, MIT, princeton etc. it's kinda peer pressure really. when everyone around you gets better scores that you, you're really embarrassed about it and before you even say anything, someone else starts, "wow. i failed....xD". people have no choice but to, "haha...xD. i failed worse than you did." and laugh it off.

this goes on and on everyday. i'm kinda getting tired of it. 

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #4 on: October 13, 2010, 18:26 »
Yep she does...her mom her dad, lol with a high pitch voice too.

Do you live in the U.S.? Well, I live in Canada and I go to a school with a population of 80% Asian students. Because of so much Asian students, we are in the top 5 public high school in all Ontario (Last time I heard from my mom). There are competition everywhere you go. Well I know that most of my friends are just going to stay in Canada and finish their education here. University of Toronto is quite top ranked in Canada so yeah. I didn't even bother to take SAT since I know I won't be going to U.S. for study. XD

Anyway I am just saying that I hate it when people act that way. It's just rude for the other that really DID fail or really DID bad as in lower than 80 or basically 60-ish since failing at my school is 50% (the real number...untouched by Asian modification). My friend did really bad on her French test and another friend got fairly a high 80%. She was saying all the "omg this is so bad, I am failing French." for the whole class. My other friend who got low mark told me how the other friend is trying to insult her indirectly.

I personally don't even tell my mark to others. It's my mark and they don't need to know it. Who cares if I get a high or low mark (my parents and I are the only ones that care)? It's not like they will have get any benefits for knowing my mark (unless they want to feel victorious just for having beat me to it or feeling defeated when they didn't beat me).

Whatever, lol my friend and I were just talking about it after school when this certain girl ran over to complain about how she won't get into ANY university with her 90%s. You know what? Too bad for her, she should just give up in education since she can't even get into a university with such high average in pocket. =[
/end of sarcasm.

"Darn it shut up, YOU are AT LEAST doing better than the AVERAGE students so be happy." is what I told her and went home.

= 3=   <--- Is still unhappy (told you that I get annoyed/mad easily with my bad temper xD)

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #5 on: October 13, 2010, 19:51 »
xD. i don't like telling my marks either. most of time people ask me and it gets kinda uncomfortable....

that's why i never ask someone else scores.  :bow:


shiki....you're better than most people (who would lose their temper). at least you know who you are. there are some kids who have no clue what their personalities are (i have a friend like that)....xD

still....BE HAPPY!!!! :D

i have a bad temper too (though i don't show it on the outside, i secretly attack them with my death glares and daggers). xD.
                                

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #6 on: October 13, 2010, 22:43 »
Though I don't ask people for help, back in my High School, everything below 95% was pretty much an Asian bomb. I didn't actually worry about marks until my entering year. But during our year, it was pretty damn competitive. I think early acceptance, which is what everyone aims for was at least 85+ and 90+ is some more competitive fields.

Then the other part is aiming for scholarships. Mostly they begin at 90+ for the first level and 95+ for the next level of scholarship. So, being worried is pretty normal. In fact a lot of my friends were like that ^^;

I didn't end up telling my marks because they'd be like "OMG YOU BEAT ME? YOU NEED TO TEACH ME NOW" which is something I didn't want to deal with. It's also that Asian parent mentality. Lots of Asian parents I know like to throw around marks that their kids get like it is some kind of contest :P...

Though you shouldn't let things like that bother you. Everyone has their own goals they are aiming for. The only thing you really need to keep in mind is if you are happy or not with your own mark.

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #7 on: October 13, 2010, 23:58 »
Yep, shiki.... i understand your feelings... because i get that sometimes. Like people would come up to me and say they did really bad, and end up with excellent scores......and that kinds of put me in a new low.. Maybe it's considered competitiveness...but it's totally unhealthy.

Some people would approach me to know my marks... and when i did badly than them, they would be very excited, "I Beat so-so". When i did better than them, they would be like... "Expected lah....confirm this grade one." I don't think it's because of asian families... I went to a average secondary school like that... hypocrites and backstabbers everywhere who would talk behind your back just because you did better than them or whatsoever. I got used to it.

Sometimes i hate telling my marks because of the expected reactions i'll get from my peers. But tertiary education is working better for me than i expected, like my peers are not doing what i'm used to from my secondary school peers... so i'm generally quite alright with it. I know people who would be glad to help others with their schoolwork/coach/teach their classmates just for the sake of helping and asking for nothing in return (:

But sometimes i admit.. I do the whole "I'm going to score badly..." thing, because i'm somebody with extremely low confidence in my work, so last time my friends did chatised me about it.. but i couldn't help it... because i wasn't expecting to score well... so yeah. And usually my grades are around 70-75% so yeah. <.<

Ah...what a horrible secondary school experience i have.
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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #8 on: October 14, 2010, 15:36 »
Some people would approach me to know my marks... and when i did badly than them, they would be very excited, "I Beat so-so". When i did better than them, they would be like... "Expected lah....confirm this grade one." I don't think it's because of asian families... I went to a average secondary school like that... hypocrites and backstabbers everywhere who would talk behind your back just because you did better than them or whatsoever. I got used to it.

Actually complaining how bad they do (when it's a good mark) doesn't bother me. It bothers me when they look down on others. I remember some of my friends would be like "How is it possible NOT to get a good mark, it is SO EASY" when talking about people that did significantly worst.

I just meant the Asian competitiveness is like anything below 90 is a fail attitude. Everyone always says how they will fail the exam (if it was below 90). In university our entire group would be telling each other "omg so going to fail" and of course everyone does fine. It is very natural to think about this kind of stuff~

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #9 on: October 14, 2010, 16:25 »
last week, everyone took a bio test and one class had an average of 24%. that's what i call REALLY failing. azn failing is below a 90.

and i have a friend who got an 80 on a test and started crying. it's an 80. next time you get 100 it'll balance out. chillllll.

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #10 on: October 15, 2010, 05:24 »
Sharwie: People are like that. Tendency to showoff, tendency to be arrogant just because you did better than others, tendency to humiliate and put down others to show that you're on a higher level or better than them.... isn't all these just human nature?

Somehow the 90% = pass asian values is scary O_O  :omg:
but i think for my side, most of us are already very happy with a 75%, maybe it's more competitive with you Canadians.

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #11 on: October 15, 2010, 16:54 »
but there are so many Canadians! sharwie. i have to admit. you're kinda hard to find.
                                

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #12 on: October 15, 2010, 18:46 »
but there are so many Canadians! sharwie. i have to admit. you're kinda hard to find.
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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #13 on: October 15, 2010, 21:03 »
sharwie sharwie...i can guess your age.

20?
 
oooo should i track down your IP address?  :goodjob:  but then....you're never on. geez. i would say, you have a static ip address. so...that makes it easier to track down......................meheheheh................
                                

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Re: Kind of people you hate the most?
« Reply #14 on: October 16, 2010, 03:14 »
sharwie sharwie...i can guess your age.

20?
 
oooo should i track down your IP address?  :goodjob:  but then....you're never on. geez. i would say, you have a static ip address. so...that makes it easier to track down......................meheheheh................
Wrong about my age already ^^; Plus age isn't that much of a deciding factor. IP is easily hidden, you know Xye thought I was living somewhere it Europe, because I happened to be using Torr to access the site, and it logged that IP ;/

 

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