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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #30 on: March 20, 2014, 19:40 »
my parents won't let me hang out or date people unless they come meet them first, so i am kind of stuck in that part
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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #31 on: March 21, 2014, 05:00 »
Didn't you move out already? That is so backwards! It's the 21st century!!!

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #32 on: March 21, 2014, 20:38 »
no i couldnt find a roomate, so i am still here and hating it
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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #33 on: March 22, 2014, 01:13 »
@Jess  Good roommates are hard to find. My sister has like, 5 people living in her house and I'm pretty sure she's the only one with a job. She's the one that pays the bills and cleans up her apartment. ALL BY HERSELF. sometimes i just want to smack her roommates.  :teardrop:

I think the only actual relationships i've been in have been online ones. And even then they didn't turn out well because of age differences.. so i usually don't count them.  I NEED BETTER GUYS TO LIVE AROUND ME, DAMN. i only have my stupid "popular" boy neighbors who have the attitude of snobs  :haix:

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #34 on: March 22, 2014, 05:01 »
Oh, that sucks Jess!!! I hope you find one soon...

I'm moving out soon as well... I hope I'll get good roommates...

Online relationships don't count Arr-chan... Snobby people are the worst!

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #35 on: March 23, 2014, 18:03 »
Then my relationship/boyfriend count= 0. I don't count the ones I had at the end of elementary because they were little kidships not relationships. 

and yeah, they suck. the worst thing about the guys who live around me is that I can tell that they are faking everything they do. Its like i know how they act and they are actually quite nice people, but because of their friends they try so hard to be jerks and I just want to go up and be like "EVERYONE KNOWS YOU GUYS ARE NOT JERKS SO STOP ALREADY" but unfortunately they don't listen to me..  :haix:

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #36 on: March 24, 2014, 06:20 »
Well, that doesn't make them undatable. If they are sweet around you, it should be all right. You can gradually make him be less of a jerk.

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #37 on: March 24, 2014, 14:23 »
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Trust me, it comes with experience. I used to be quite dense, but now, three relationships down the road, I'm getting the hang of it. So not to worry. You'll get there!  :goodjob:

yeah, it really does come with experience.

my relationship count since the start of high school = 5 (and i'm finishing uni in two months). except two of those were only for a few months, wherein i realized they weren't really what i was looking for / i didn't care enough about them to justify including them in the balance of my life (school/volunteer/finishing up college apps).

i like to think that i consider each one of my past relationships a learning experience. as you progress through relationships, you learn more about yourself, what you like, what you dislike, what you're willing to put up with, when to keep trying, when it's not worth it anymore...

a lot of it also has to do with your own emotional maturity level and whether you're ready to take on genuinely caring about someone other than yourself - and vice versa.

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #38 on: March 24, 2014, 18:41 »
@Angel- yeah, but they aren't though. They force themselves to be jerks around me because I am considered "Unpopular". YAY RETURN OF THE STEREOTYPES. They are nice, but because the guys around them treat me like crap, so do they so that they "Fit in". Its one of those intensely complicated really stupid things that prevents others from being friends with other people.  :haix:

I think that when it comes to relationships, everyone else knows that I'm the kind of person who will take it super seriously, while others know they are just screwing around. Maybe that's why I haven't had a boyfriend? I at least like the chance to be in a nice relationship, even if it didn't last long..

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #39 on: March 24, 2014, 21:19 »
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Its like i know how they act and they are actually quite nice people, but because of their friends they try so hard to be jerks and I just want to go up and be like "EVERYONE KNOWS YOU GUYS ARE NOT JERKS SO STOP ALREADY" but unfortunately they don't listen to me..

yeah, but they aren't though. They force themselves to be jerks around me because I am considered "Unpopular".

i have to disagree with this .__. if they're not nice to you / if they're jerks to you at all, then that makes them jerks.. i think you're just trying to justify their behavior which shouldn't be the case. either they're friends or they're not, there isn't really an in-between on this issue >__>;

also you probably haven't had a boyfriend because the right one hasn't come along. it isn't just a matter of two people wanting a relationship haha so many other things have to work out as well. *shudder, incompatibility issues*

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #40 on: March 25, 2014, 02:18 »
Well, they aren't the only people I know who act one way, but want to act another and don't because they want to be part of the "IN" crowd.

and i suppose that's true enough. But the guy needs to move his ass already.  :=X:

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #41 on: March 26, 2014, 17:49 »
Everybody wants to belong, even if you don't want to admit it. Humans want to stick together, so they adapt.

My approach with the whole love stuff is: What comes, comes. What doesn't come, doesn't matter. Just let it happen.

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #42 on: March 26, 2014, 18:31 »
^ THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS.


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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #43 on: March 27, 2014, 23:38 »
I like that I have people I can go to for this kind of thing. Most of the people I talk to are about as clueless as I am  :=X: Thanks guys! :love:

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Re: Happy Valentine's Day ^_^
« Reply #44 on: March 28, 2014, 02:42 »
combo of reading lots of books + real life experience = best combo!
it also helps that most of us are probably older than you hahaha

 

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